You Don’t Need To Be Fully Healed To Help Others — You Just Need To Be One Step Ahead

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“No one achieves anything alone.”

We human beings need each other, it’s part of the fabric of our nature and need for survival. Apply what you’re learning to help others, even if you still have more to learn — we all still have more to learn! And, we always will — that’s the magic in helping others at any point we feel we have something to offer, share, or teach as a means to help someone grow.

Experience gives you agency!⁣

An organic experience(s) of your own, meaning your organic, personal healing journey, gives you:

  • knowledge
  • influence
  • authority

⁣So don’t gaslight yourself!

For example, I am smack in the middle of my own healing journey from past traumas, which I lovingly like to call my Identity Rebirth and Cultural Renaissance, and yet I still serve as an effective coach in helping other survivors of psychological trauma to navigate life from a place of self-acceptance and operate via fierce intuition, unwavering self-respect, and complete authenticity. I am able to do this because I have dedicated myself to my own growth and have abundantly learned and continue to learn new, fruitful ways to flourish and thrive in this life. And, I use the unique knowledge I’ve gained from my personal experiences in healing, learning, and growing in tandem with my innately unique gifts skills to implement this effort with purpose and love — we ALL have this ability and opportunity!

Something as fundamental as deeply, intently, and empathetically listening to someone share their reality is the antidote needed to effectively support them. This is a skill many do not possess — don’t underestimate its power.

You are worthy and able to serve and help others! Honor your experiences, honor yourself, and honor others by owning what your experiences have taught you and how they’ve fostered the thriving authority you are today!



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Alexandria Thibodeaux

Alexandria Thibodeaux

The Boundary Badass™ — I serve as Interpersonal Communication + Relationship Strategist specializing in self-reverence™ & self-advocacy.